How to Report a Scammer: A Step-by-Step Guide
Reporting a scammer protects you and everyone else they might target. Here's exactly where to report, what information to include, and how MyLoopNetwork uses your report to protect others.
Most scam victims never report what happened to them. Some feel embarrassed. Others don't know where to start. But reporting is one of the most powerful things you can do — it protects the next person, helps law enforcement build cases, and adds the scammer's information to databases like ours so their tactics stop working.
1. They refuse to video call
A real person who likes you will want to see your face. Scammers avoid live video because their appearance won't match the stolen photos they're using. They'll always have an excuse — bad connection, broken camera, working overseas. If someone has never once agreed to a live video call after weeks of chatting, that is a serious red flag.
2. Their profile photos look too perfect
Scammers steal photos from models, military personnel, doctors, and engineers — people whose lives look aspirational. If every photo looks like a professional shoot, run a reverse image search or upload the photo to MyLoopNetwork's free verification tool. Real people have candid, imperfect photos.
3. They fall in love unusually fast
This tactic is called 'love bombing.' Within days they're calling you their soulmate, talking about your future together, and saying things no one says that quickly. It feels amazing — that's the point. Genuine relationships build slowly. Manufactured ones move at the speed of manipulation.
4. They always have a crisis that needs money
The script is predictable: a medical emergency, a stuck shipment, a business deal gone wrong, a plane ticket to come see you. The amounts start small and escalate. Once you send money once, the requests never stop. No legitimate romantic partner will ask you for money before meeting you in person.
5. They claim to work far away
Oil rigs, military deployments, international construction projects, and medical missions abroad are the most common cover stories. These jobs conveniently explain why they can never meet, why they need money wired internationally, and why they're always in a different time zone.
6. Their messages feel copy-pasted
Many scammers run dozens of victims simultaneously using scripts. If their messages feel generic, if they repeat the same phrases, or if they occasionally call you by the wrong name — you may be one of many targets. Pay attention to inconsistencies in their story over time.
7. They ask you to move off the dating platform
Dating apps have fraud detection. Scammers want to move you to WhatsApp, Telegram, or email as quickly as possible — away from any oversight. They'll say it's more personal. It's actually because the platform can't monitor or flag the conversation once you leave.
8. Their story has inconsistencies
Keep a mental note of what they tell you. Scammers juggle many victims and forget details. Their job changes, their family situation shifts, their location doesn't add up. These aren't memory lapses — they're the cracks in a fabricated identity.
9. They discourage you from telling friends or family
Isolation is a core tactic. They'll say your family wouldn't understand, that this is just between you two, or that your friends are jealous. This is designed to cut off the people most likely to recognize the scam and warn you.
10. They ask for gift cards or wire transfers
Banks can reverse credit card charges. Gift cards and wire transfers cannot be undone. Scammers know this. If anyone you've never met in person asks you to pay via gift card, wire transfer, or cryptocurrency — stop all contact immediately.
What is a perceptual hash?
A perceptual hash (pHash) is a digital fingerprint of an image based on its visual content — not its file data. Unlike a regular file hash that changes if you resize or re-save an image, a pHash stays nearly identical even if the image is cropped, filtered, or compressed. This makes it ideal for matching photos that have been slightly modified to avoid detection.
How MyLoopNetwork's scan works
When you upload a photo, our system computes its pHash and compares it against every fingerprint in our database using Hamming distance — a measure of how many bits differ between two hashes. A distance of 10 or less is a strong match. Between 11 and 20 is inconclusive. Above 20 is clean. The entire comparison happens in milliseconds regardless of database size.
What is identity mismatch detection?
This is our most powerful feature. If you upload a photo and tell us the name the person gave you, we compare that name against the name on file for the matching photo. If they differ — say the photo is on file as 'Patricia' but the person told you they're 'Keisha' — we flag it as an identity mismatch. You can also upload without a name: if the photo matches any report in our database, we'll show you whose photo it actually is.
Why stolen photos are so common
Scammers steal photos because building a convincing fake identity from scratch is hard. Real people have years of social media history, tagged photos, and a consistent online presence. It's far easier to steal the identity of an attractive, credible-looking person and use their photos. Military personnel and healthcare workers are especially targeted because their professions command trust.
What to do when you get a match
If a scan returns a match or identity mismatch, stop all contact with the person immediately. Do not send any money. Report the account on the platform where you met them. Submit a report to MyLoopNetwork so we can add the scammer's contact details to our database and protect others. You can also file a report with the FTC at reportfraud.ftc.gov.
Step 1: Report to MyLoopNetwork
Start here. Submit the scammer's name, phone number, email, platform, and any photos they sent you. Our team reviews every submission. Approved reports are added to our searchable database and their photo fingerprints are added to our verification system — so the next person who uploads that photo gets an immediate warning.
Step 2: Report to the platform where you met them
Every major platform — Facebook, Instagram, Tinder, Hinge, WhatsApp, Telegram — has a reporting mechanism. Use it. Platforms take fraud reports seriously because scammers damage their reputation. Include screenshots of conversations, the profile URL, and any phone numbers or email addresses they gave you.
Step 3: Report to the FTC
The Federal Trade Commission collects fraud reports at reportfraud.ftc.gov. Your report feeds into a national database used by law enforcement agencies across the country. You don't need to have lost money to file — attempted scams are just as valuable to report.
Step 4: Report to the FBI's IC3
If you lost money, file a report with the FBI's Internet Crime Complaint Center at ic3.gov. The IC3 handles cybercrime and fraud cases and can coordinate with financial institutions to attempt recovery in some cases. Include all financial transaction details.
Step 5: Contact your bank immediately
If you sent money via bank transfer, contact your bank the same day. Wire transfers can sometimes be recalled if caught quickly. If you used a credit card, dispute the charge. If you sent gift cards, contact the gift card issuer — some have fraud departments that can help. Act fast: the window for recovery closes quickly.
What information makes a report most useful
The more detail you provide, the more useful your report is. Include: the name(s) they used, all phone numbers and email addresses, the platform where you met, screenshots of conversations, any photos they sent, dates of contact, and the amount of money lost if applicable. Even partial information helps — a phone number alone can connect multiple victims to the same scammer.
Stop all contact immediately
Block the scammer on every platform. Do not respond to any further messages, even if they threaten you or beg for one more chance. Any continued contact gives them more opportunities to manipulate you or extract more money. Save all evidence first — screenshots, transaction records, contact details — then block.
Secure your financial accounts
Contact your bank immediately. Explain that you've been a victim of fraud and ask them to flag your account for suspicious activity. Change your online banking passwords and enable two-factor authentication. If you shared your bank account details with the scammer, ask your bank about opening a new account.
Attempt to recover lost funds
Contact your bank or credit card company to dispute charges or recall wire transfers — act within 24 hours for the best chance. For gift cards, call the issuer's fraud line immediately. For cryptocurrency, recovery is extremely difficult, but report to the exchange and file with the FTC and IC3 anyway. Some law enforcement operations have successfully seized crypto from scammers.
Protect your identity
If you shared personal information — Social Security number, passport, driver's license, date of birth — place a fraud alert with the three major credit bureaus (Equifax, Experian, TransUnion). Consider a credit freeze, which prevents new accounts from being opened in your name. Monitor your credit reports at annualcreditreport.com.
Report everywhere
File reports with MyLoopNetwork, the FTC (reportfraud.ftc.gov), the FBI's IC3 (ic3.gov), and the platform where you met the scammer. If the scammer claimed to be a military member, report to the Army Criminal Investigation Division. If they claimed to be on a dating app, report to the app and the app stores.
Take care of your mental health
Romance scams cause real emotional trauma. Victims often experience grief, shame, and depression. These feelings are valid and normal. Talk to someone you trust. The AARP Fraud Fighter Helpline (1-877-908-3360) offers free support specifically for scam victims. The Cybercrime Support Network at cybercrimesupport.org also provides resources and community.
Protect yourself going forward
Use MyLoopNetwork's verification tool before trusting anyone you meet online. Never send money to someone you haven't met in person. Be skeptical of anyone who moves too fast emotionally. Share your experience with people you trust — awareness is the most powerful prevention tool we have.
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